John M. DiLello
Home:
Central Valley, NY
Date of Death:
January 21, 2010
Age:
51
Birthdate:
December 4, 1958
Place of Birth:
Brooklyn, NY
Service Information:
Wednesday, January 27, 2010 10:00 AM St. Patrick's Church, Highland Mills, NY
Visitation:
Tuesday, January 26, 2010 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. Smith, Seaman & Quackenbush, Inc. Funeral Home, 117 Maple Avenue, Monroe, NY
Interment:
Orange County Veterans' Cemetery, Goshen, NY

John M. DiLello, a 23 year area resident, passed away Thursday, January 21, 2010 at Orange Regional Medical Center, Goshen, NY. He was 51 years old. John was the son of the late Dolores Crowley DiLello and Joseph DiLello and was born December 4, 1958 in Brooklyn.

John was a Construction Superintendent for VRH Corp. in Englewood, NJ. He was a member of Local #45 Carpenters Union in Queens, and he was a veteran of the US Marine Corps.

Survivors include his wife Laureen Winslow DiLello, son Joseph and daughters Jessica and Samantha all at home, sisters Charlene Daley of New Windsor and Karen Ueckerman of Oceanside, brother Lawrence Ludwig of Brooklyn, mother-in-law Louise Winslow of Monroe, nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be held from 2-4 & 7-9 PM, Tuesday, January 26, 2010 at Smith Seaman & Quackenbush, Inc. Funeral Home, 117 Maple Avenue, Monroe. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 AM Wednesday, January 27, 2010 at St. Patrick's Church, 448 Rte 32, Highland Mills. Interment will follow at Orange County Veterans' Cemetery, 111 Craigville Rd, Goshen.

Memorial contributions may be made to American Heart Association, Heart Gifts Processing Center, P.O. Box 3049, Syracuse, NY 13220.




Albert Kosakowski January 23, 2010
To the DiLello Family, The loss of John is a loss to all. I will miss his energetic personality, good nature and willingness to get the job to the satisifaction of his clients. I have never met a more caring person and at time he was larger than life. When we spoke about our families you could see the joy it brought him and how proud he was of his son and daughters. I could tell this to be true having three childern also. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Al

Karyn Schuchardt January 23, 2010
I wish your family peace and strength in the days head.

Jack Daley January 25, 2010
God's Peace to you Guys.

Kathleen Carroll January 25, 2010
John was a kind, caring, gentle man who never uttered a bad word about anyone. John performed CPR on my fallen father and it was obvious how badly he felt that he didn't succeed in reviving him. I will forever be thankful to him for his effort. He will be greatly missed, but his spirit and generosity will live on through his children, who have inherited so many of his wonderful qualities. I'm sure they are celebrating in heaven now that he's arrived. God bless him.

Jane Frick January 26, 2010
I'v eworked with John at VRH for many years. John was always the perfect gentleman and very kind to everyone who met him. John was a hard worker. We at VRH are going to miss you John. Now God has one really good carpenter working for him. Love Jane

Chrissy Cauthers January 28, 2010
Dear Aunt Laureen and kids I just returned from vacation and was absolutely shocked to hear the news. I am so incredibly sorry. He was a great man and I will always have fond memories. Love to you all.

Maria Migliorato February 24, 2010
Think of all of you often. I will always remember John helping my father. He will always be the biggest Mary Tyler Moore fan I know. With love and prayers.